Emily’s Journey of Resilience and Success

Emily Hagerman’s life has been a testament to resilience and determination. Diagnosed with high-functioning Autism, Dyslexia, and ADHD at a young age, Emily faced significant challenges. She started talking later than most children and worked hard to overcome a lisp. Social interactions were tough, and her teenage years were marked by depression and suicidal thoughts, requiring various medications.

Despite these struggles, Emily earned her high school diploma and moved out at 17. She lived with a friend’s family, helped with nannying, and briefly worked at a bakery, which she realized was more a passion than a career.

A pivotal moment came when her grandmother entered hospice care, sparking Emily’s interest in healthcare. Though she struggled with social interactions, she learned to read emotions, especially since her grandmother spoke only Chinese. Emily also cared for her grandfather, who had dementia.

Emily’s career path included working at a kennel and earning a certification to train service animals. After moving back to Colorado Springs, she faced difficult interactions with roommates and was often taken advantage of due to her disabilities. However, her determination never waned.

Meeting her fiancé, Anthony, brought stability and support. Emily found her passion working at Our House, Inc., where she assisted people with disabilities. She grew up interacting with people of varying abilities, and she felt at home in this job. This experience led her to pursue a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) license, and even encouraged her to step out of her comfort zone and apply to work in an actual hospital. Not only did she complete her CNA licensing process, but she also got hired at Memorial North Hospital.

Throughout her journey, Emily’s parents exercised immense patience, even doubting at times whether she would become a functioning member of society. Emily herself once believed she might never marry and would rely on Social Security Income (SSI). Yet, her determination proved otherwise.

Reflecting on her journey, Emily emphasizes perseverance. “If someone tells you that you can’t do something because of your autism, try it anyway. Try doing it by yourself, even if you have to ask for help. If someone tells you no, prove them wrong,” she advises. Emily acknowledges that failure is part of life, but standing up and trying again is crucial.

Today, Emily is a successful CNA, engaged, renting a house, and caring for her two cats. She values her older friends for their wisdom and continues to navigate social challenges. Her story is an inspiration, demonstrating that with determination and support, one can overcome significant obstacles and lead a fulfilling life.